Tips From the Experts

There are times in relationships when the bed springs will need oiling. In my previous entry I challenged women to use sex toys. Apparently, experts suggests the same thing, here are some tips coming from the experts:

The first tip they gave is for couples to engage even just in simple bondage during sex. ” Many a sad sex life has been saved by a silk scarf. Why? Because bondage gives a psychological thrill: ‘It gives you the chance to relinquish control and be teased or to have your partner at your mercy,’ says Emily Dubberley, author of audiobook Dark Desires

Next is spanking ‘It’s all about submissive helplessness versus power and control, rather than the pain factor.’ So don’t go charging in there with a great big wallop. Dubberley explains the correct technique: ‘Avoid spanking the kidneys. Instead, focus on the ’sweet spot’ – the point at which buttocks meet thighs.’

And finally, SEX TOYS. Though it may be risky in a sense because your partner might feel an insecurity because you might do a comparison between his penis and lets say a huge dildo, you should take things in another level, communication is always a good thing on relationships. The joy of using sex toys with your partner is the fact that you psychologically titillate each other for trying out something different once in a while. Also, as I’ve said before, always always consider the right type of sex toy that may be suitable for you. Try going to flixes.com and get ALL the types of sex toys that you may need.