There are times in relationships when the bed springs will need oiling. In my previous entry I challenged women to use sex toys. Apparently, experts suggests the same thing, here are some tips coming from the experts:

The first tip they gave is for couples to engage even just in simple bondage during sex. ” Many a sad sex life has been saved by a silk scarf. Why? Because bondage gives a psychological thrill: ‘It gives you the chance to relinquish control and be teased or to have your partner at your mercy,’ says Emily Dubberley, author of audiobook Dark Desires

Next is spanking ‘It’s all about submissive helplessness versus power and control, rather than the pain factor.’ So don’t go charging in there with a great big wallop. Dubberley explains the correct technique: ‘Avoid spanking the kidneys. Instead, focus on the ’sweet spot’ – the point at which buttocks meet thighs.’

And finally, SEX TOYS. Though it may be risky in a sense because your partner might feel an insecurity because you might do a comparison between his penis and lets say a huge dildo, you should take things in another level, communication is always a good thing on relationships. The joy of using sex toys with your partner is the fact that you psychologically titillate each other for trying out something different once in a while. Also, as I’ve said before, always always consider the right type of sex toy that may be suitable for you. Try going to flixes.com and get ALL the types of sex toys that you may need.

OK, so my birthday is coming up real fast and I sort of tried a lot of things during my past parties so this time, I want to have a simple but “FUN” one. Well, my parents sort of spoiled me when I was younger so I leave everything to them. I decide on something then, they finance everything else. When I was too old to to be expecting them to throw parties for me, it was my friends’ turn to make me a happy celebrant but this year, I think its time to return the favor to my friends and prepare for my own party. So now, I’m in a planning mode…

Food, booze, invitations -preparing them is not really much of a problem. But, I notice that adults these days don’t really like the idea of parlor games anymore. So this time, I’m giving them games that will blow their adult heads away. With that in mind, I tried looking for party games over the internet, here are some shit I found from gorskys:

Celebrity Heads - Convince yourself the guy you gave head to at the party was actually Brad Pitt in disguise and not Mike the bogan gate crasher.

Three Legged Race - Stand with your hip touching every man as you talk to him about your recent lesbian experience and see which one gets a hard-on the fastest.

Go to the toilet and put on a luminous condom. Come out and turn of the main fuse, plunging the party into darkness. Then launch yourself into the main room, trousers around your ankles laughing maniacally and swirling your little fella in a rotating fashion. Then simply make sure to get out of the room before someone discovers the fuse!!!!

Three Legged Race - Stand with your hip touching every man as you talk to him about your recent lesbian experience and see which one gets a hard-on the fastest.

Master of the Ass - See how many ass grabs you can make for the night whilst not taking the blame for any of them.

Minty Hunt - Ransack the kitchen then complain loudly to the annoyed host that they have no snack food.

Who’s Not A Millionaire - Strike up conversation at different times with 3 different women with 3 different stories of how you made your millions. See how long (and how many drinks) you can go with out screwing up.

Yes yes.. Apparently, thats an adult’s idea of what a fun party is all about… Anyway, to give you real ideas, here is a book that can turn your party from flop to top. Get Games for Naughty People by Brian Pellham. It has everything you need to make your party a night to a kinky event to remember. He featured different group activities that can make everyone in the party intensely wild!

There are times that you wish that you can be a kid again. If you can’t be one, do stuff to be like one. No, I did not mean play in the sandbox and throw tantrums if you don’t get what you want.

Here is a product that can make you feel like a kid again but enjoy the freedom of an adult! It’s the “Pleasure Play Swing” by Calif Exotic Novelties. Using swings during sex play doesn’t only “look” fun, it really is one hell of a ride! Sometimes you are stuck in sex positions that you can only do on bed or in the couch; but using swings will help you try out and discover new positions that you never imagined doing.

Sometimes you wanna do it in standing position, but face it guys, not everyone has the package to do it.. err the biceps I mean.. Swings can help you support your partner and ease the weight so you can concentrate your attention where all the action ought to be. Swings will help you maximize the use of your energy which will help you do longer hours of sex. Plus, the concept of its “unusualness” and “fun” will amplify the sex play which will result to a better love making experience.

Here are some suggestions o how to enjoy Pleasure Play Swing:

* Do a standing missionary! With her seated on the swing and him standing; it will be a hundred times less tiring for both of you if you would just swing her back and fort according to how fast you want each thrusts to be.

* You could also do doggy style easier with a swing -with the woman facing down and the man in her rear. That will definitely make it easier for her because there won’t be any strain in her knees and palm.

* The swing could also make her masturbation more enjoyable because she can easily prop up her legs in the handles of the swing making it easier for her to spread her legs as far as it can go.

* The swing is tough enough to support two people so feel free to experiment on different positions, you will be surprised at how much you can do with it!

Doc Johnson knew what double your pleasure double your fun meant when they made this awsome toy.

This dildo is great for him, her and both at the same time! A clear double sided dildo you can ride any way you want…

This double banger has a nice smooth side and a ribbed side.. so pick your pleasure and your side when you ride this baby.

And as all our toys, this one is very easy to keep clean

The Love Wand sells for 17.99

Now we know that men love thong undies on women and women feel uncomfortable in them… so how about a pair of thong undies she will adore. Yep, I am talking about vibrating thong undies so great it will make her cream, literally.

This cute little pair of undies has a built in vibrator to make sure she loves em. They look like any other pair of black underwear but carry a serious punch.

They go for abot 14 bucks and worth every cent when you consider they will become her favorite pair… quickly. Hey you may wanna get 2 because these are not your grannys undies and she will need to change em more than once a day… if ya know what I mean.

Vibrating black thong