The first tip they gave is for couples to engage even just in simple bondage during sex. ” Many a sad sex life has been saved by a silk scarf. Why? Because bondage gives a psychological thrill: ‘It gives you the chance to relinquish control and be teased or to have your partner at your mercy,’ says Emily Dubberley, author of audiobook Dark Desires

Next is spanking ‘It’s all about submissive helplessness versus power and control, rather than the pain factor.’ So don’t go charging in there with a great big wallop. Dubberley explains the correct technique: ‘Avoid spanking the kidneys. Instead, focus on the ’sweet spot’ – the point at which buttocks meet thighs.’

And finally, SEX TOYS. Though it may be risky in a sense because your partner might feel an insecurity because you might do a comparison between his penis and lets say a huge dildo, you should take things in another level, communication is always a good thing on relationships. The joy of using sex toys with your partner is the fact that you psychologically titillate each other for trying out something different once in a while. Also, as I’ve said before, always always consider the right type of sex toy that may be suitable for you. Try going to flixes.com and get ALL the types of sex toys that you may need.

Though use of sex toys may be something that is better off closeted inside your bedroom, it is something that women should not be shameful about. Masturbation and use of sex toys are as normal and as similar as taking a daily shower only more… compelling. Also, just like taking a shower, using sex toys could be more enthralling when done with a partner. Sex toys spices up relationships and puts more flavor in all sexual encounters. You just have to know how to choose the best sex toy for you and be sure to take care of your personal toys so you don’t have to be worried about anything. There are lots of sex stores that you can go to, remember that people go there with the same reason as you so, do not get mortified. You might even be surprised at how extreme sex store customers could get! But if there is no way that you will be comfortable into going down the store to buy a dildo, there are online stores where you can get all kinds of merchandises that you need.

Use of the toy: This part clearly speaks for itself. Before purchasing a sex toy you should know who will be using the toy. Do you intend to use it by yourself or with a partner? Will your partner agree to the use of sex toys during sex? Who is your partner, male or female? Are you and your partner familiar with the use of sex toys? If you’re not too sure about these things, think it over or talk it over with your partner buying one.

What do you want the toy to do for you: Different sex toys have different functions depending on your needs. Ask yourself or your partner what it is you are looking for. If you want to be aroused and stimulated, then maybe a good toy would be a vibrator. If you are looking for deep penetrating action, a dildo should do the job. You can even use both if you think that you and your partner will enjoy it more.

Style and appearance: Each person has his / her own preference when it comes to style. There are dildos and vibrators that look “real” for those who go for the realistic look. There are some with a clit stimulator which serves to tickle your clit while penetrating you hard and deep. It all depends on what turns you on.

Price: When all is said and done, everything boils down to the price. Even before making a purchase think of how much you are willing to spend for a sex toy. Most high quality toys are expensive, so if you want to experience the top of the line products, be ready to shell out some major cash.

The Lost Boys: In the past, sex toys were practically being marketed to females alone. Now a growing number of products has been geared towards males. Before it was mainly erection pumps, now we see a number of new products for men. Products like the sleeves, cock rings, ticklers, and extenders.

So once you got each of these covered, you shouldn’t have any problems choosing the right sex toy for you. And once you get your little toy, it’s time to enjoy.

To have a funkier party, here are some neat stuff that guys can use in their bachelor party.

Here are some boobie pens that they can give away as souvenirs. These nice handfulls of boobies costs only $43.95!

You guys can also distrubute these buttons to your guests, I’m sure every guy will enjoy it hanging on any part of their clothes.

You could decorate the place with these boobie balloons. They only cost $2.99 per pack!

Besides the guys favorite bestfriend boozey, you and your guests can also celebrate the moment, with these  booby partypoppers. You could get it for only$76.95!

There are many more party ideas in flixes.com, you will find lots of neat stuff that you can use in your parties!

The first thing I prepared is the invitations, of course. My friend hates too many people around so, I prepared invitations for 12 of our closest girl and gay friends. When my friend saw the invitation, she knew I’m cooking something up my sleeve:

I got it all in me head now, I have already finished doing groceries for food, I’m preparing Chipolata sausage wrapped in bacon, deep fried mushroom caps filled with cheese, mini salmon with leek quiches, rolls of roast beef with waldorf salad on toast, mini lamp kebabs in oriental bbq sauce and mini vegetarian cocktail spring rolls.. ummhmmm!!! And what exactly inspired me to go cocktail instead of my usual ribs and pasta?

These nice cocktail picks!

I already said naughy right???

And what is a party without the right type of booze? So, I hired a hot bar tender to mix-up batches of daiquiri, mojitos and margaritas.. And to match the Cock-tail pick, I also found these nice wine glass charms, cocktail stirrer and what would be hotter than this ice molder?

Anyway, to add more raunch here are some more stuff that I added to my list:

Bachelorette Balloons

Light- Up Corsage (So we will spot anyone who tries to kidnap the male strippers) and pose able Pin-up decorations!

I still have a lot of planning to do so this is it for now. This party caused less than  a grand, mind you! To see more naughty party stuff go to flixes.com!

Food, booze, invitations -preparing them is not really much of a problem. But, I notice that adults these days don’t really like the idea of parlor games anymore. So this time, I’m giving them games that will blow their adult heads away. With that in mind, I tried looking for party games over the internet, here are some shit I found from gorskys:

Celebrity Heads - Convince yourself the guy you gave head to at the party was actually Brad Pitt in disguise and not Mike the bogan gate crasher.

Three Legged Race - Stand with your hip touching every man as you talk to him about your recent lesbian experience and see which one gets a hard-on the fastest.

Go to the toilet and put on a luminous condom. Come out and turn of the main fuse, plunging the party into darkness. Then launch yourself into the main room, trousers around your ankles laughing maniacally and swirling your little fella in a rotating fashion. Then simply make sure to get out of the room before someone discovers the fuse!!!!

Three Legged Race - Stand with your hip touching every man as you talk to him about your recent lesbian experience and see which one gets a hard-on the fastest.

Master of the Ass - See how many ass grabs you can make for the night whilst not taking the blame for any of them.

Minty Hunt - Ransack the kitchen then complain loudly to the annoyed host that they have no snack food.

Who’s Not A Millionaire - Strike up conversation at different times with 3 different women with 3 different stories of how you made your millions. See how long (and how many drinks) you can go with out screwing up.

Yes yes.. Apparently, thats an adult’s idea of what a fun party is all about… Anyway, to give you real ideas, here is a book that can turn your party from flop to top. Get Games for Naughty People by Brian Pellham. It has everything you need to make your party a night to a kinky event to remember. He featured different group activities that can make everyone in the party intensely wild!

Here is a product that can make you feel like a kid again but enjoy the freedom of an adult! It’s the “Pleasure Play Swing” by Calif Exotic Novelties. Using swings during sex play doesn’t only “look” fun, it really is one hell of a ride! Sometimes you are stuck in sex positions that you can only do on bed or in the couch; but using swings will help you try out and discover new positions that you never imagined doing.

Sometimes you wanna do it in standing position, but face it guys, not everyone has the package to do it.. err the biceps I mean.. Swings can help you support your partner and ease the weight so you can concentrate your attention where all the action ought to be. Swings will help you maximize the use of your energy which will help you do longer hours of sex. Plus, the concept of its “unusualness” and “fun” will amplify the sex play which will result to a better love making experience.

Here are some suggestions o how to enjoy Pleasure Play Swing:

* Do a standing missionary! With her seated on the swing and him standing; it will be a hundred times less tiring for both of you if you would just swing her back and fort according to how fast you want each thrusts to be.

* You could also do doggy style easier with a swing -with the woman facing down and the man in her rear. That will definitely make it easier for her because there won’t be any strain in her knees and palm.

* The swing could also make her masturbation more enjoyable because she can easily prop up her legs in the handles of the swing making it easier for her to spread her legs as far as it can go.

* The swing is tough enough to support two people so feel free to experiment on different positions, you will be surprised at how much you can do with it!

You may ask, does this thing work? According to some doctors and some people who admit to using it, it does help in many cases.  Though medical researches has not confirmed that it can actually add length and girth to the penis, it has been proven effective as a good treatment for erectile dysfunctions. Penis pump is a very good alternative if in case viagra and drugs of the same nature won’t work. For those who doesn’t know how penis pumps works: it consists of a tube made of acrylic and a pumping mechanism device either a hand grip, squeeze ball or electric device that increases blood flow in the penis as air gets pumped out of the tube. A penis ring is slid in the base of the shaft to maintain the erection of the genitals.

Some suggests for men to use it a few times a week during masturbation over a 30-minute period to see changes, but it has never been confirmed that it would definitely make a long term difference. For safety, opt for penis pumps that has a “pressure limiter.” Abuse of penis pumps may cause severe tissue damages to the penis. I suggest you get the “Colt Vacuum Pump” Its a  heavy-duty high-pressure metal vacuum pump with EZ grip padded handles, professional vacuum gauge, durable 2¼” clear cylinder, non-crimping hose, universal interlocking quick disconnect valve, and a hygienically superior silicone. You shouldn’t be entrusting your penis in bad hands or tubes for this matter…

A lot of women on the other hand needs so much more than a little inspiration to be able to play with themselves. Because unfortunately, not all women experience sexual orgasm so, they tend not to masturbate  at all.

Scientists says that there may be prohibiting factors that cause women not to climax during sex. One of these may be a womans mental focus; their minds may be wandering off into other thoughts while they are on the act of having sex. There may also be experiences and beliefs that causes a woman to block off the pleasure of sex. Lastly, some of  them simply lack exploration of their own anatomy.

Here’s a tip: the more a woman explores her territory, the better she will feel during sex. No one is going to sue you for touching yourself, so don’t be afraid of getting to know your body. Know the spots where you have the highest sensation and find different ways to trigger that “spot”. For starters you could get the book “Joys of Masturbation” by Hans Richter for only $11.99. This book will show you the art and technique for you to enjoy masturbation. Knowing your erotic spots during masturbation will heighten sex once you do it with a partner. During sex plays, men though they are used to being dominant; it excites them if you tell them what you want. Vocally point out to them where you want to be touched or stimulated and tell them things that you want done to you. Seeing you enjoy will make them fell good about themselves thus, increasing the quality of the play for them as well.

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